The Art of Touching Women

How Men Touch and Why it Matters

live Virtual Course:

Coming January 2027

$777

I could literally take this course over and over again non-stop and never get tired of it. Cosmo doesn’t just bring information (although he does that, in spades), he brings presence. He brings experience. He brings honesty and sincere care. He brings humility. I am a better man today on account of the time I have shared with him, regardless of what I learned, which was enormous. And the course is 3x as fabulous thanks to the contributions of his extraordinary wife, Casia, a wise and generous soul.
— Jason, July 2026

Modules

  • Does she want it?

    Why how we touch matters

    Moving from the profane to the sacred masculine

    Understanding neuroception and polyvagal theory

  • who is it for?

    Foundations of Wheel of Consent

    Directionality of Touch

    Why be in service

    When to take

  • How does she want it?

    Learning responsive touch

    Supporting interoception

    Are you listening?

    Do you care?

    Principles of attunement

  • women's anatomy of arousal

    Evolving models of female arousal

    Pleasure mapping, live demo

    The anatomy of female pleasure

    Touch skills and technique

  • taking for your pleasure

    Objectification with positive regard

    The male anatomy of arousal

    Befriending the beast

  • tools for change

    Anatomy of Desire

    6 common touch challenges and somatic solutions

  • knowing when to stop

    Pacing and titration

    Taking care of the heart

    Power dynamics and safety

    Letting it land

Cosmo and Casia met in 2017 at their Somatic Sex Educator training. Casia had been an active Sex Educator in Toronto for 10 years and Cosmo was transitioning from being a professional chef to a professional erotic bodyworker.

Cosmo has spent the past 8 years doing immersive retreats for women with Back to the Body. Working with hundreds of different bodies repetitively in a container held by women.

Cosmo and Casia have been deeply committed to working with men and women in a triadic model since their training and are enthusiastic to bring this new, and extremely important, embodied understanding of how to touch and interact with women.

*This content is not exclusively for those that identify as men and women, though they recognize that this is the dynamic that could most deeply benefit from their shared knowledge. Transmen and non-binary humans are welcome to attend this course.

cosmo meens & Casia sobolewski

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